Two stories. Two different lessons.
A while back a lady was standing in the check out line at the local drug store. It was a pretty long line and one harried, weary cashier was attempting to get through it while two other employees stood to the other side of the register area talking and looking at a phone. This lady gets up to the cashier and looks at her face. The cashier looks about ready to cry. So this lady makes some seemingly unimportant comment about how she was doing a good job getting through the long line. But then the cashier just opens up. She came in with a migraine, was barely able to get to work, and was getting no help from her manager or the other employee. She was so happy to receive a compliment instead of a complaint. That small comment helped her through that morning.
Fast forward to the present day. A lady (we'll call her Ann) with three children were shopping at a local department store. Along came a lady (we'll call her Jane) who thought that Ann was being inconsiderate and holding up Jane's progress of getting through an aisle. Jane was having a bad day to begin with. This put her in a very grouchy mood. Jane huffed and sighed and made an uncomplimentary remark. Jane continued on her way, leaving Ann and her children stunned and confused. As Jane made her way around the store, the Holy Spirit (Jane's a Chrisitian) started working on her conscience. She started feeling very convicted and ashamed. So Jane knew what she had to do. She had to find Ann and her children and apologize. Ugh. We don't like to do that do we. Jane did find them. I think Ann was completely shocked when Jane showed up and asked to talk to her. And maybe even more shocked when Jane apologized to her and asked for forgiveness. Thankfully Ann was very gracious and forgave Jane for her un-Christlike behavior.
I am those two different people. I am the one who helped by my words and I am Jane who harmed by my words. I definitely prefer being the one who helps with their words! I am so glad the Holy Spririt worked on me in the second situation. I am so glad that Ann was so forgiving. I can only hope that my bad behavior and subsequent humble obedience in apologizing will bring something positive to the lives of her and her children. I know it has brought deep repentance in me.
Lord, please set Your guard over our mouths. They can do so much good and yet also so much harm. Help us in our homes, our jobs, our churches and our daily lives to spread love and kindness through our words. Let "everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them." Ephesians 4:29. Help us to "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior." Ephesians 4:31 Let our words and our lives glorify You. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Proverbs 16:24 Kind words are like honey— sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.